I guess I do have a long torso! As the bike I bought is on the bigger side of my supposed range.

The bike feels great, but like I said this is my first road bike, so I have nothing to base it off of.

@thinktubes yes my finger is 1 cm behind. But If i got a shorter stem, the hub would be even further out in front of the handlebar. That's where I was running into a problem. Can't adjust one without messing up the other. Didn't know if one measurement was more important, or if I have a pretty good compromise as is. My only knowledge regarding fit is the huge amount of time I've spent perusing BF threads