Originally Posted by
Omiak
Might be worth looking into rear wheels designed for tandems. I think 40 and 48 spoke count wheels are used on tandems.
The velocity dyad comes in a 48 spoke version.
I'd presume in drilling the hub to take larger spokes you would lose any advantage of stronger spokes by increasing your chance of the hub failing at the flange.
This would be the best for what you want.