I finally got used to the Blackburn bar-end mirror.
I bought the thing one day at local bike shop, and tried to install it . the bar end hole was to small. When I got home I carefully drilled it out and it fit good.
I tried to use it but just could not adapt to it. Today I re-installed it after three months, and went for a 10 mile ride, and got it dialed in. I like it. Before everytime I tried to look over my shoulder I would almost crash. I'm loving it. Finally!