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Old 07-24-12 | 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by LessonLearned
Quite true. I guess I'm a glass half full kinda guy though, because I think, instead of everyone just agreeing to be jerks and putting up with it... we should just be decent to each other instead. That way no one has to have thick skin, and that way we don't develop a habit of being inherently rude to others.
I like the Scrod approach... He posted something a few days back (IDK where) that I agree with:

Don't expect kindness or compassion from anyone.

That way you are OK with ppls being stupid/rude (the real world) and you feel truly grateful and happy when someone actually is kind to you, which likely won't be most of the time.
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