I know some guys like that. I met my wife later in life and we both had our own lives. Now that we share a life together it doesnt mean the past interest or hobbies must dissolve in a soup of huggy-kiss's, you dont love me if you dont do everything with me quicksand. Some of the things she wants to do, I have no interest in and vise vera. We both like to ride and thats aplus and we spend alot of quality time with the child and her hobbies sports.