Originally Posted by
treadtread
We saw a girl riding her bike today, holding a cup of coffee in her hand. My wife said: That's cool, she's able to balance it so well. Without thinking, I said: That isn't hard, I did it when I was carrying ...
So why was it cool when the girl did it, but not cool if you would do it. There seems to be a gap there. And yes I understand wives.
My ex was not cool with my bicycle commuting until, because of our routes, she was able to come up behind me, she driving and I cycling and see that even though I was not aware of being observed by her, I was cycling in a manner that she considered safe. Then I had her do the numbers on how much it would cost us for me to be driving and that sealed it.