Originally Posted by
zeo_max
What if I get the large but then see it is too small and need to change again, are they cool with it ?
If possible, I would hold off on the return and order the large size to compare with your XL. After determining which fits better, that's the time to send the other one back for a refund.
BTW, I think you may fit between sizes. I'm of similar build and I wear XL jackets. A large may be too tight for you until you drop some weight. But that may give you some motivation to ride more.