My pedals are all platform, one with power straps, which are ok but not great.
So I am considering going clipless.

After doing some initial research I think I'm going with Shimano PD-M520 pedals.

Problem is I usually wear barefoot shoes - no heel, flexible sole, wide toe box. After wearing five fingers, soft star, and the like for two years my toes have spread out a bit and normal shoes tend to feel tight on me and hurt my feet after extended use.

The guys I ride with use clipless, and their shoes all look like they are designed to crush the toes. Perhaps some Chinese foot-binding advocates have infiltrated the cycling shoe design teams, or maybe it's just more aerodynamic.

So I am seeking an SPDM shoe with a wider than usual toe box, and ideally made from materials with some "give" to them. I know cycle shoes need to be stiff in the sole, but maybe there is something out there with a softer upper for comfort.

Is there such a thing?

thanks!