Originally Posted by
Rowan
Once it's over for me, it's over. Time to move on to new pastures and leave the cows in the old one.
Originally Posted by
Soloist Assassin
Funny thing is. Despite us "not being in a relationship". A few weeks back I showed her a pic of the cheerleader, and said something about how cute she looked in that pic, and she got furious with me. I told her it wasn't like that, but it didn't matter she was pissed. If we were "just friends" why would it of mattered? I guess it's only okay when it is convient for her. Anyway, I posted a pic of Bentley on fb, and the cheerleader liked it. Guess who liked it right after that? Yep, that's right.... I'm thinking I should see if the cheerleader wants to go out to dinner before she leaves town.
I'm not going to comment on the appearance of her coz she seems quite cute, but really you need to read my post above, memorise it and come back tomorrow reciting it as a mantra.
Take it from Uncle Rowan here, it will work.
Any contact you maintain will only have you self-doubting and second-guessing yourself. Yyou'll never break free from beating yourself up all the time.
Cut all the ties. Unfriend, delete the phone numbers and put an ignore option on her email addresses (yeah, I know, you've got more than one or two of them). Resolve to turn around and walk away when you see her, and don't for the love of God, go shadowing her or ask your mutual friends what she is doing; it's none of your business anymore.
Another little tip, too. Until you have broken the ties, you'll be useless as a dater with other chicks. They'll see right through you in an instant...