Originally Posted by
I-Like-To-Bike
Stop reading Internet experts whose advice, based on their racing/touring expectations and their bottom, is not relevant or helpful for you.
If a wider padded seat works for you, use it.
Lighten up
Everyone offers advice based on their experience - the person asking for advice has to process all inputs and then decide what is best. Whether it is an internet forum or a physically present group doesn't matter. Maybe I have been frequenting the forum less, but just lately, you really have been posting more critical/negative comments than usual.
You message sounds like:
Stop asking for advice/opinions.
No point in asking questions? Really?