I like Black Mountain the service shop is top notch. Got a friend that wrenches at Trek KM as well.
Since you just blasted my two go to LBS I cant help you. You must have some cool shops up there.
IMO the internet killed allot of business at LBS and only a few survive. I am no saint as I buy allot of my stuff online as well.
I suggest you got to Pizza Port on PCH chill outside and watch the local bikes ride by and have some good San Diego Craft Beer and it will improve your mood.
So with that thought I will just go out and ride and earn my evening beer.
Cheers