Do you sit forever at red lights when there is no traffic? Many signals will not activate for bicycles. You could sit there in the hot sun all afternoon and never get a green light. I think there is room for a little common sense. On a bike, you are in a good position to know when it is safe to blow a red light. Cagers will thank you if you make theur wait a little shorter, and you will thank yourself too.
Most cyclists are too impatient (too smart, maybe) to go to quite the extremes that you do. So you just go right on thinking you're a better human, if that makes you feel nice and warm inside.