Well, I had a bike with Ultegra 10-speed. Road it for about three years, then put that Ultegra on a race bike. Crashed it. Moved the Ultegra to a cross bike, and that is where it still is seven years later.
I replaced the Ultegra with Sram Red about 5 years ago. I am still running that Red. I have crashed it. One of the RD pulleys has a slight crack in it, but still works. That groupset has probably more than 50k on it.
And I now have 2013 Red on my new bike. It only has a few thousand miles on it.
Also, my wife has had Force on her bike for four years now and probably has more than 40k on it. She crashed once on it. No issues whatsoever.