Kickstands were fitted for a reason

Here's my transporter with steer-lock and kickstand.
If you got a normal bike, just reinstall it where it belonged.
Some mountainbike's have a kickstand near the rear-axel fitted, those often break due to unbalanced weight or your bike tips over on unsmooth surfaces.
Regularly check the main bolt, as it loosens over time and this certainly damages your frame. So will dirt and moist which clogs around it.