There is so much I don't know about women :/
You might be surprised the lengths some women go to in order to ... look good ... meet social expectations ...
Anyway, something like these can help ...
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss...ar%2Caps%2C924
I used something like these, except they were built right into little foot nylons:
http://www.amazon.com/Rosallini-Adhe...etatarsal+pads
Something more like these, I think ...
http://www.amazon.com/HUE-Womens-3-P...words=toe+pads
But if the other suggestions don't work, something along these lines might help.