Look at Koobi Saddles. That's what I'm going to and have been fairly happy with them. The are wide in the back where you are supposed to sit and then there is a long and generous relieve channel that runs the length of the saddle with the nose turned down. You are supposed to set up the saddle with 0-10 degree down angle, I have mine at about 1 degree. I do notice the complete lack of pressure all along the whole nose of the saddle on the perineum. It's a "sit on the sit bones" sort of saddle.

J.