We had a Surf&Turf burial for my FIL. Split his ashes into 2 bio-degradable containers. I placed one container in the pedestal base of this ornament, http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=...ed=0CD0Q9QEwBg, along with the flag he flew everyday in front of his house and we had a ceremonial burial at sea with his grandson's lowering it down to the bottom of the Gulf to start a reef. Have the numbers for future visits. The other half I placed in the grave with my MIL back north. Now when he gets tired of her nagging he can leave and go fishing.

Guess I am one of the few without issues regarding one's death. I'll continue to continue as I am able to and have no issues with the inevitable. Matter of fact, will make sure I don't wind up like so many elderly individuals. No burden on my family and they are aware of my feelings.