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Originally Posted by turky lurkey
As far as homeless people being offended by me as I pass by, I don't really know much about that. I guess I do mostly commute on an old bike and I wear basic street clothes (sweat pants) so I don't look rich, but I also don't look homeless because my bike has lights and I wear a helmet. I have found many of them to be friendly and courteous as I ride by each day, they often smile or say hello and I do the same. I have actually found that many of them are more worried about offending others than they are worried about being offended. Sometimes they apologize needlessly if they inadvertently cause me to have to slow down or something.
When I'm not riding my bike, I'm generally wearing an old T-shirt and jeans. Depending on the weather, I may also be wearing my favorite hoodie, which is old and tattered. To top it off, I have long hair and a big bushy beard and my hair is usually quite oily. That is, I tend to look like many homeless men. It's not uncommon when I'm walking around downtown or riding public transportation for a homeless man to assume that I am also homeless, at least there are clues that come up in conversation that seem to me to be based on such an assumption. I don't rush to correct them, but I don't hide the reality of my life either. Typically when it becomes clear that I have a stable place to live, that isn't a problem. Notice, however, that this comes up because I'm having a conversation with them. My experience with homeless people is that they are just like anybody else (though perhaps they don't hide their eccentricities as well). I used to think that homeless people talked to me because they thought I was also homeless. Over time, I've come to notice that they talk to pretty much everyone and I just end up in more conversations with homeless people than most others do because I listen. (Note that the correlation between mental illness and homelessness is well documented and I accept it as correct, but mentally ill people, for the most part, value acceptance and social interaction just as much as anyone else, possibly much more.)
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