How do you let go?
Originally Posted by
Leebo
Close passes by cars. I can't seem to just let it go...
Originally Posted by
Leebo
Mostly pedaling in leafy suburbs. I have 7 miles of bike paths for the last bit into town.
I have a similar situation but nonetheless I get buzzed, not necessarily with hostility, but seemingly driving just too close. My main source of security on the Road is a rearview mirror, and I'm a big advocate. But it's surprising to me how often I’m startled by a passing car, maybe lulled into a sense of security by the tranquility. I never did see the car that hit me from behind on a wide, well-lit, lightly-traveled 25 mph road.
My immediate and satisfying response is to place
The Bicyclist’s Curse:
Originally Posted by
Jim from Boston
When I'm peeved by a driver’s actions, instead of the middle finger and obscenties, I give my own special Bicyclist's Curse. I vigorously and repeatedly point my finger at the offender while shouting,
“You, you, you…” with the intention that future harm befalls them. It’s more satisfying to me than the other gesture, with the hope of future metaphysical retribution.
I do also bestow Bicyclist's Blessings to drivers who show even a modicum of respect and compassion, with a friendly wave, a
“Bless You,” and wishes for good things for them in the future. Even in car-crazy Boston, I perform numerously more blessings than curses. Probably about 2-3 blessings a day on a 14-mile commute vs about 1 curse every 3-4 weeks.
I feel empowered to perform these rituals, because my friend who introduced me to adult cycling once commented when a threatening rain turned sunny,
“God smiles on His Bicyclists.” To anyone who reads this post, consider yourself authorized to bless and curse too.
Originally Posted by Matthew 16:19
And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven
