Originally Posted by
mhifoe
On thing that I have found helpful is to concentrate on the next good interaction with a motorist.
Next time someone passes wide, or waits patiently, give them a little wave and think about that instead of focussing on the previous negative experience.
I recently posted to this thread:
Originally Posted by
Jim from Boston
…When I'm peeved by a driver’s actions, instead of the middle finger and obscenties, I give my own special Bicyclist's Curse…I do also bestow Bicyclist's Blessings to drivers who show even a modicum of respect and compassion, with a friendly wave, a “Bless You,” and wishes for good things for them in the future.
Even in car-crazy Boston, I perform numerously more blessings than curses. Probably about 2-3 blessings a day on a 14-mile commute vs about 1 curse every 3-4 weeks….