Some topics are more female specific than cyclist specific and they're more comfortably asked and more quickly answered by women based on their experience and opinions rather than forcing the poster to wade through calls for photos of "the affected area" and comments that the thread is "useless" without such photos. Several excellent examples can be found by searching for the words "wife" or "girlfriend" plus "saddle" although adding "crotch" would guarantee even better results. Go ahead. Just for fun.