Originally Posted by
Ygduf
I don't intend to sound cruel, but in a way I envy you. As I'm in my 3rd year of being married, and like 7th? 8th? year with being with my wife, I miss some of the highs and lows of dating. I miss that new-relationship smell, and in a sense the hurt you risk with that whole scene.
It might suck now, but man, you're alive!
You can fix that. Show your wife you still care. Do something spontaneous and unexpected for her. Don't take her for granted.
It doesn't have to be big. I picked a bouquet of wild flowers for my wife two weekends ago on my way home.