This was me a year ago! It HURT...and I changed saddles around, and didn't help much. What changed eventually, was my body - down there. Seriously. It 'tightened' up (I'm middle aged and bore two kids) so it wasn't so, um, low, and I got more comfortable on a saddle. No, sensations are the same , but it's like internal organs and such tightened up with all the exercise and 'jarring around' on a bike, as well as eventually losing 20# from all the road time.

Try other saddles too, that put your weight on your sit bones, but that's just been my experience. (okay guys, you can come back now )