I'm not getting any younger either and in preparation for getting back into bike touring this summer I was looking to replace my Thermarest Ultralight self-inflating pad. It is just too thin for me now. I chose the REI Flash (
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I have not yet headed on the road with it, but I have camped out in the back yard 3 nights and slept well, especially the 3rd night. A new tent and pad took some getting used to. Considering it is relatively narrow, I am surprised how well the raised edges do indeed keep me on the pad.
Good luck!