Yeah, if you want to go above 60psi, it's the Topeak Road Morph with guage (or Lyzene and others make copycat models) -
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It's not the smallest, though. The mounts it comes with either mount under the top tube, or steal a water bottle cage, so it's kind of annoying. (It's possible to find a beside-the-waterbottle-cage mount, I have one on my winter bike, but bizarrely it doesn't come with one.)

There's no smaller pumps that will get you above around 60psi (Edit: What I mean is, the Road Morph will get you into the 100's for psi, but no pumps smaller than the Road Morph will get you above about 60psi). Only way to do that is to use CO2. I don't like CO2 myself, because I don't like having to replace cartridges (it's more the hassle and remembering to do it, if I use one then forget I could get stranded), and...well a whole bunch of other reason that I am personally not fond of CO2.

It's not really a problem for me though, as I very rarely get flats with puncture resistant tires, so riding home on 50-60psi very rarely is fine with me.

For a smaller pump I use the Road Morph Mini on my commuter, because it's smaller size means it fits in my trunk bag (only need to remove 1 bag when I arrive at work). It would work better for the specific situation you had a problem with because it has a hose so it doesn't put pressure directly on the valve stem (the larger road morph also has the hose). It will only get you up to 50-60 psi though -


It comes with a beside-the-water-bottle-cage mount.

Here's a pic of the size difference between the full size road morph vs the mini -