Post this on the helmet thread. Maybe someone will take a break from the infighting there to give you some specific advice.
OTOH- I suspect it's going to be a question of trial and error to find the shell with the best approximate fit, then tinkering with various combinations of pads and pad position, possibly using stick-on Velcro to mount pads farther forward on the sides, where your head is narrower.
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