Originally Posted by
Kopsis
Most groups are perfectly happy to let you stay in the back on your first ride. Just let folks know that you're new and you're going to hang back to get a feel for how the group rides. Focus on demonstrating good riding skills. Group expectations often vary quite a bit from group to group. After a ride or two, you'll have a much better feel for what your group expects.
it's all about making a good first impression. letting them get to know you and all your good points. when you've proven yourself to some extent is the time to let it be known you are really an insufferable know it all like everybody else.