Great suggestions everyone. Thanks for replying. I am going to go through all of them and hopefully put together what is right for me. My Aero Tech bib came in today, and fits pretty well, except the butt which has a little extra fabric and feels like the pad will move due to it. Think I may either send back for a smaller size or go with a compression type boxer under regular shorts. Found some great performance reebok tops at destination xl, they were pricy so I only bought two, but they are nice and fit great. Hopefully, I can find a few more options in what everyone suggested and be kitted out at least till I drop a few sizes
and, just in case any other Clyde's wonder, the Electra Townie is GREAT! Really making it fun to get back on the saddle again. If anyone ever has any questions about them, feel free to PM.