Iam the OP -- And this is where i am right now -- Any Imputs?

i have tried every one of the ones listed here and all seem to be good..

Local LBS - 2014 Gaint Defy 1 AL Frame - Shimano 105 - 1300$

Online Focus Cayo Evo Bikes with 40+ % off..
Focus Cayo Evo 3.0 with SRAM Force Componentry
Focus Cayo Evo 2.0 with Shimano Ultegra Di2 (10 Speed)

The online shop seems to be giving me better support via email n phone than some of my local LBS.
And also Iam not sure if the Di2 Upgrade is worth the $400 Upgrade.

I pretty much looked at all of the relaxed Geometries from the entry level to upto $3K..