Thanks @
cs1 and @
golden it was very very nice of him, but it would not have sat good with me, nothing free in this life, his son was stoked to have the $20, he has emiled me thanking me saying he was keen on a girl . . . waiting to get payed from his part time job to ask her out, with the $20 and a further $20 he worked for around the house(would not take the money from his dad for free?!? Awesome guy) so he asked her out to the movies and now has a girlfriend out of it, so life is kinda smiling on me and the son. Perfect.