It's a great thing, but try Tom's advise first, then do whatever.
PS Java Update doesn't care if you pay BF, it's just there for the party. Use the Report this website menu option or enable more security features if you are comfortable with that. And keep the questions coming. There are no stupid questions, only stupid missed opportunities.
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