Not trying to pick a fight either. I am not an expert either but am mechanically inclined and have learned a lot the past few years.

Sounds like your drivetrain has an adjustment problem. I've had Shimano EF50 8 speed, Alivio 8 speed, R440 9 speed, and R770 10 speed that all worked fine--the difference in the higher end being smoothness, quickness, effort and feel. But they all worked. Sounds like both your front and rear derailleurs need adjustment.