finkster:
Get a saddle that does not bear on your perineum (the base of your d**ck). I currently use the Adamo "Prologue" and shall soon try the Cobb JOF fifty-five. These saddles have no nose and simply cannot apply pressure to your perineum.
I have tried a number of carefully selected saddles and none gave me any relief for numbness and/or pain in my nether parts. However, after switching to the Adamo saddle, I have experienced no pain or numbness. None. Not any. Their secret is no secret at all: if you don't sit on your perineum -- it won't hurt. Other manufacturers are catching on to this simple fact and you'll see many more such saddle designs as time goes on.
Joe