Basically the last bike seat I was using on my bike (forward position riding style)
caused some irritation and restricted bloodflow. Seems like all my weight came down and crushed my willy between my pubic bone and the bike saddle horn. The saddle had a cutout, so that just made two really narrow pressure points. Like sitting on the wedge end of a doorstop.

This isnt supposed to happen as far as I know, but bicycle riders are 200 percent more likely to get injuries down there, along with permanent scar tissue. Not something a guy wants! and I haven't been able to ride my bike for months now. I looked into recumbent's, but I do not have the finances for a 700 dollar bicycle. Maybe a 100 dollar seat, but nothing more than that .

So has anyone used a nice comfortable seat that doesnt leave you with that "its cold,numb, and I cant feel anything" feeling after a long bike ride. Something for wide sit bones, or an upright ride? (switching to a more comfortable bike)

Lepper primus 215 seems like a nice seat. Nice and wide and flat for wide sit bones and an UPRIGHT riding style?