I've been a long time proponent of mixing gauges to offset some of the effects of differential tension. It's worked for me for 40 years. I use light spokes on front and left side rear, and heavier butted spokes for right rear.
So I second Bill K.'s suggestion, or might say that he's seconding my approach.
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