Originally Posted by
rekmeyata
Chauvinistic post? Do you not know what that word means? It means: "an attitude of superiority toward members of the opposite sex:. No where did I say I was superior to my wife, in fact I will not treat her like my mother or like a slave, she is my equal and my job has a husband is to prevent her from doing anything unnecessary that I can't handle myself. In fact when you call your wife every time you have a flat to come rescue you you are the one that is being chauvinistic because you don't view her as an equal nor feel like you should bother trying to fix something yourself before you bother her, you view her as your mommy figure to come get her little boy. Yeah, I know that sounds rough but it is what it is.
So then you post remarks like you do to make yourself seem superior when it fact your not because you don't know how to treat your wife.
Tell you what, lets here from the women here, do they want their husbands to call the everytime they have a flat to come get them or would they prefer to have their husbands take care of the situation the best they can without calling them?
I have tried to restrain myself from commenting on your "my wife is not my mother" rant. Whoop dee doo!
I have never called my wife to come give me a ride due to flats, but I have called her to pick me up two times in about 27 years of knowing her and marriage to come and get me due to accidents and resulting injury. And the last time was five weeks ago when I had an accident. She even insisted I go to the emergency room in the wee hours of the morning when I could not sleep despite icing my knee and hip all day from my accident. I protested, insisting I'll crawl to the emergency room, but she'll have none of it.
So, it is whoever's personal business if they'll call their wife to pick them up if they have a hang-nail. I do not stick my nose into whatever husbands ask their wives to do, and neither should you.