Thanks for everyone's opinions, all are very much appreciated.

CDR, just sent you a friend request on FB, I don't use it much but anyone can find pics of my kid on there. We're lucky that we have an easy child, 8lbs at birth, now at 10 weeks he's 14 pounds and essentially sleeping through the night. For now. So the wife won't care if I take some time for myself to ride. I really want to get some upgrade points this summer before committing to a nicer bike. Leaning to Supersix with 105 11 speed.