Originally Posted by
hubcyclist
speaking of work stuff, i was one of two candidates up for a promotion, and I was the loser. the way my employer works is that formal notifications come through an HR application website. fine, but my manager, who was the one who made the decision, hasn't even addressed it with me personally and hasn't even spoken to me in two days, despite her office being right by my cubicle and passing by multiple times per day. so I'm going to have to be the bigger person and address it.
That's rough. I've been there before and its best to hash things out and get some perspective. The best thing to do is try to understand how your boss sees you as an employee (which is usually very different from what you think) and make changes as needed. Good luck.