Have you tried a saddle with prostate cut out? Terry Cycles makes them as welll as others. If your saddle is all the way forward on the rails your stem may be too long or your top tube is too long for your torso/arms. Try a shorter stem, so you can move your saddle back. Did the bike shop fit you to the bike or just sell you a bike?
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"When the spirits are low, when the day appears dark, when work becomes monotonous, when hope hardly seems worth having, just mount a bicycle and go out for a spin down the road, without thought on anything but the ride you are taking." - Arthur Conan Doyle