The air pressure needed for different rider weights will vary based on the bikes suspension design. Using the same shock for two different bikes, rider weighing 175 pounds. On bike a the shock may require 125 psi. On bike b the shock may require 175 pounds.
The blow off could be for when the shock is locked out, if it hits a hard enough bump it will work anyway.
Hope this makes sense.
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