damn... good to hear she's okay...
grinds my gears when people in cars ****ing actually hit people...
I know people get attached to their bikes... but maybe you just try and sell her on the wonder of falling in love again with a new frame set..
surely there's gotta be something she has her eyes on... you can salvage the groupo and the wheels/tires yes? That's a good starting point if you can... just throw it all on a new frame...