Originally Posted by
cdrewferd
My question to you guys, do you see it as being worth the hassle of doing the commute to lose some family time?
Depends, how much do you like your family?
I see you've already decided to give it a go, but 3-4 hours out of every day is a LOT of time for a family man. I strongly suggest you listen to all the other good ideas on this page and consider shortening that time with a mixed mode (car/bike or transit/bike), or do only some days each week.
Another option that you should consider: move.
I used to live 25 mi from work, got back into cycling, and could only manage biking to work (2h each way) once a month or so. And even then, I would drive in with the bike, ride home, rest overnight, and ride back the next morning. 4 hours taken out of just one day was too much for me.
Also my kids went to a private school not far from my work, so my wife was making round trips up there once or twice a day (depending on carpools). I had been working there for many years, but after a few years of all the driving to school, I finally woke up and we decided to move to where our life is. We sold the 4br detached house with yard, and bought a 3br townhouse with no yard (and no yard care! yay!!). Now I am 5.5 mi from work and bike full time, and the kids don't have to waste half their life in a car.