Originally Posted by
tandempower
Online k-12 schooling seemed like a good way to spend more time biking and practicing real world activities with my son but his mother disagreed and saw homeschooling as socially alienating. I wanted him to have social experiences as well, but it bothered me (and still bothers me) that the schools and other parents aren't open to changing school rules to allow home-schooled kids to participate in some ways and not in others. Schools want uniformity in structuring students' educational lives. They don't want some kids showing up sometimes for some classes and activities and others for others, etc.
I'm not trying to encourage anybody to move to Oregon, but here home schooled kids can participate in school programs to varying degrees. So it can be done and is in some places.