Each person will be a bit different.
I'm of the narrow camp. But, I ride a drop bar road bike, and not a hybrid. If I had a hybrid, it would get converted to a drop bar cyclocross/gravel bike.
My Tricross with 32mm tires remains parked most of the time because I believe it has more rolling resistance than my road bikes.
I avoid potholes, road cracks, sewer grates, and glass with a passion.
People laugh at me for towing a cargo trailer with my Colnago... so I changed over to towing it with the Litespeed, and they still laugh at me
Anyway, I was just poking around town a bit today... 37 miles RT.
My tire of choice is 23mm, or currently 25mm. I've been trying a few different tires. I did well for the last 2 summers riding 25mm Origin8 Elimin8ers. I had a 25mm Marathon on last winter, and this spring. I have to decide if it will go back on this fall as it has a pretty deep gouge in it. Also experimenting with some 25mm Panaracers, not sure about those. Gator Harshells or 4 seasons?