With all this discussion, I have some questions:

1. The OP is short torso, long legged. Some say to get a smaller frame and a long seat post. Wouldn't this put the rider in a very aggressive position where they would look like a guy on a high bar stool reaching for a napkin that fell at the base of the stool?
2. When you raise the seat, doesn't reach also get affected since the seatpost is never vertical and slightly laid back?
3. Doesn't every rider strive for a similar angles on the bike (forward lean, arm to back, elbow, knee, etc.)?
4. What if the OP is looking for a more upright, endurance posture? If you are fitting the OP on an endurance frame and will result in a racier posture, what if the OP doesn't want that? how will they get an endurance posture? Is it not possible? Same for the reverse, if they end up with an endurance posture but really wanted a race posture.
5. With the OP's long legs, how do you prevent the knees from hitting their chest if they are on such a high seat post and they are leaning well forward?
6. I do not understand how the OP would be able top get a handlebar to seat heigh with zero difference in height (endurance setup) with the suggestions offered? Please explain.

thanks for the clarification. I am close to being in this boat too.