I second the idea of getting multiple opinions, and considering non-surgical remedies before going under the knife. As for recovery time projections, that's something to discuss as a consideration when deciding if, when, and by who you have the surgery done.

This isn't something that you need to deal with immediately, so take your time and proceed when you feel comfortable with the decision. IMO- the very fact that you're here questioning the information the likely surgeon is giving you is a sign that you don't have an adequate level of trust in him.