Originally Posted by
Scooter123
At that point he said, hey I remember you. You... You're the guy who got my car trashed! CLICK.
After that, silence.
I hadn't thought much about that event in a few decades. It certainly came back after that call. So I hope this dispells the notion of years of guilt and anguish. It was more like a bucket of cold water to the face.
I think that the simplest thing I could have done back then was man up and apologize. It would have been a good start anyway. So maybe the right thing to do at this point would be to take care of that much, and offer to help if he needs any.
Much appreciated,
Scott
I am really unclear about how you are at fault for the actions of the perpetrator. But, it is clear the LBS owner has some hard feelings and doesn't want to discuss it. Time to just say "I did my best to make amends" and move on. It's not on you anymore. Of course, you can denigrate yourself forever if that's what you want to do. For me it would be done.