OK, the first part of overcoming a problem is admitting you have a problem. My problem is that I'm obsessed with saddles. I got a new Ridley Fenix in September and I've gone through half a dozen saddles. I read an article that said the main reason people have problems with saddles is that they are either level, or tilting down in front. On some saddles, if you sit upright (like an endurance frame like I have) it puts too much pressure on your sit bones. I got a new Specialized Romin Evo Expert and I tilted the saddle back a couple of degrees. Wow, what a difference. It took the weight off my hands, no numbness or pain, and I was able to move around the saddle with no problem. Just don't tell my wife that I spent money on 6 other saddles...