An interesting self-observation in that blogger's "about" bio page:
"...it is a thread running through my life that I’m hard to help."

I've noticed this characteristic among several of my neighbors living in subsidized housing. It's a complex issue. The very tenacity that enables some folks to persevere against obstacles to retain some independence may lead them to reject assistance, even when they ask.

However, that writer is unusually perceptive regarding his own personality quirks. Most folks have a blind spot in that regard.

Excellent blog and articles, thanks for the link. I've passed it along via Facebook as well.