Looking at the bike, it looks to be a 18" which if it is, is way to small for you.

For the bike, if it does fit, as the fork needs replacing, you will probably find it's not cost effective to do anything with it, as even a basic one (and the other parts you need) will end up costing the same as you should be able to pick up another bike for.

For the kickstand, it's a MTB (your a MTB forum), and no MTB should have one if used as an MTB.